Pornography on the relationship does it benefit or harm?

Pornographic movies and magazines with sexual content have existed for many years. Many men, especially, are fans of pornography, but fortunately, many share his taste for it with their partner. Women are usually those that do not feel so comfortable if they discover that their partner loves movies triple X.  However, others point to enjoy them and use them as a weapon to rekindle their relationship. In short, pornography, benefit or harm your love relationship?

It is much more common for men to admit that they like to have a good time watching pornography, whether on the Internet, through magazines or watching a movie with naked women. Women, however, are not inclined both to pornography, because they prefer a real sexual encounter with their partners. It is not a secret that men respond more to visual stimuli when it comes to sex, and women, auditory and emotional stimuli .

However, some women become concerned if they find that their partner sees pornography . They wonder if their partner does not feel attracted to them or you may prefer to view pornography have sex with them.

Before worrying, I tell you that no studies on sexual behaviors that indicate that less than 5% of cases of men who love pornography, have problems in their daily lives and in their relationship because of this hobby.

Pornography becomes a problem only if your partner fails excited to have relationships rather than going to these stimuli. Or if it becomes an addiction and is no longer so interested (a) to have sex with you and spend a lot of money on "porn" or content cybersex . It can also become a problem if you realize that your partner enjoys watching sexual content that is not socially accepted or present an ethical dilemma, like sex with animals or children.

However, adult films can be used to favor the couple: both can enjoy pornography to quicken or give a new touch to their sexuality. Also the fact of watching pornography together can lead them to be more honest about your desires and fantasies .

It is likely that you or your partner see pornography to enjoy some sexual fantasies dare not tell for shame. That's when pornography can become a very useful tool to talk openly about, what you like to you, what you like him or her and what they would like to explore together.

As you can see, pornography does not necessarily mean that your partner has no interest in you. It may simply not dare to confess certain tastes or think you see it as something bad. Either way, it can be a good way to explore new ground in the sexual plane and privacy.

But if something does not make you feel comfortable (a), it is important to honestly tell your partner. Do not accept sexual behaviors you do not like simply to satisfy the other person. It is better to speak honestly and find a point where the two can fully enjoy the sexual life together, respecting the views of the other.